boundaries
When working on change (of whatever colour and destination) - boundaries might actually be helpful.
Boundaries are for you and about you. They’re not how you want other people to behave, they’re about what you will tolerate. And only you can define that.
For the livestock, it might be the fence. For the hikers and trekkers, the foothills to the major peak ranges. for some, it might be the end of the road.
I’ve been to El Chaltén a couple of times. The first time, I struggled with the loose gravel in the foothills - for whatever reasons. The next time, I was fine with that. However, it was late spring, and the upper areas still sported loads of snow and ice. Crampons had to take care of that. And for some, who weren’t accustomed to to mountaineering, that was their individual boundary on that occasion.
Boundaries are healthy. They create the (head-) space you’ll need to adapt. And healthy relationships will allow you setting boundaries. In fact, the negation of boundaries might be a warning sign.
Boundaries can vary, depending on circumstances. It’s absolutely valid to shift them accordingly! Just make sure to communicate them.